Thursday, October 31, 2019

Challenging Stereotypes of Beauty: Singapore will host its first International Plus Size Beauty Pageant!


Cheer with me: for the first time ever, Singapore will host a plus size beauty pageant. Do I care about beauty pageants? Not really. But I do care about challenging stereotypes of beauty, whether it be Western or typical Asian stereotypes. While in the West the discussion on dispelling beauty standards is trending and plus size models emerge, Asia is still coming around to acknowledging the need for body positivity. Plus-sized women in Singapore often face cutting remarks, even from the people closest to them. Luckily, Fiona Tan proves that Asians don’t have to be slim and petite to be considered beautiful…

Lately, an increasing amount of conscious strides have been made in the West in highlighting the vicious, self-perpetuating cycles that hamper body image. A long-awaited discussion on dispelling beauty standards is finally trending and plus size models like Ashley Graham have emerged - and are here to stay, hopefully. Asia however still needs to come around to acknowledge the need for body positivity. Which is why it is such good news that International plus size pageant Miss Top of the World Plus Size” (Miss TOTW PS) will be held in Singapore this November!

Body authenticity and positivity - here to stay in the West or a temporary trend? 

As an Asian minority in last year’s competition, Fiona Tan, reigning Miss TOTW PS 2019 and director of the Singapore pageant this year, stood out from the line-up of full-figured beauty queens with her charisma and effectively debunked the notion that Asians must be slim and petite to be considered beautiful, sending local and international media into a frenzy. Fiona was crowned both “Miss Top of the World Plus Size 2019” and “Miss Plus Size of the World 2019”, emerging as the first and only Asian and Singaporean woman to win two global beauty pageants. You go girl!


I'm an instant fan of Fiona Tan!

According to the Straits Times, many plus-sized women in Singapore struggle with body image issues alone, as there are no local support groups for them. Apart from having trouble shopping for clothes or finding life partners, plus-sized women often face cutting remarks, even from the people closest to them; the media, ads and even their peers and family members bombard young people daily with the message that only thin people have value. Which is why, at the age of 21, Fiona made a drastic decision to undergo liposuction in Thailand,. This brought her weight down to 72kg, which she soon after regretted as she felt she had lost part of her personality. She now weighs 102kg, and has fully embraced her curves. With the competition this year, Fiona hopes to inspire Asian women of all shapes and sizes to celebrate their bodies, while combating body image issues, eating disorders and body dysmorphia: 

“We are here to defy societal norms and overcome limiting beliefs about what constitutes beauty.” 

Hear hear! The candidates arrive November 8th and will compete in a Grand Finale & Award Ceremony at Legacy Centre on November 12th. Read more about the pageant & contestants here. They are all absolutely beautiful, but my favorites are -surprise- Singapore and The Netherlands. Good luck girls!


2019 © Ms & Mrs Top Of The World

Monday, October 28, 2019

Happy Halloween: Creepy Cool Cosmetics & Spooky Skincare

Not directly related to the tropics but way too fun not to share; the best Halloween beauty products! Judging by the amount of Halloween costumes and gadgets in stores, Singapore seems to be getting ready for Halloween taking this holiday very serious. The following Korean Beauty brands offer great products to add to this weekend’s celebration of horror. Colour your lips deep blood red with Holika Holika’s Bloody Oil Tint as the perfect finishing touch to your Zombie Nurse costume, or bring your skin back to life with Too Cool For School’s Pumpkin Sleeping Pack after a long night of spooky partying…


1.) BERRISOM - BLACK RICE HORROR SKULL MASK 


I absolutely love this – I’m not a big fan of sheet masks (i.e. cotton or fibre sheets which are pre-cut into the shape of your face and soaked in liquid formulas) but this one was too cool to flout.


The sheet that you apply on your face has a spooky skull printed on it, so you can walk around looking even more scary than you already do when wearing a plain sheet mask – the regular white sheet masks freak my husband out big time, and with him many more men I presume. The mask contains black rice extract and collagen, which makes dull and dry skin clear and elastic. I really liked using this mask, apart from the cool skull; good scent, good fit of sheet and no dripping of the product from the mask when you wear it! 

Black Rice Horror Skull Mask 
Price: 4,90 SGD
Available at a.o. Sasa (over 20 stores in Singapore) - Find stores here


2.) JUNTENSHI - BLACK WITCH SKIN PACK



The magic of the Black Witch, an ink black peel-off face mask in this case, removes three impurities and moisturizes the skin in seven ways. In which ways? No clue…the brand is Korean and doesn't seem very internationally oriented. The translation on the back of the pack is in a very cute but minimal kind of English and the website is entirely in Korean. From a blogger in Taiwan I understand that the ingredients are a.o. horse oil and salmon, so that in itself seems creepy enough to me!!!

Black Witch Skin Pack, 125 gram
Price: 29 SGD
Availableat BHG Bugis, 200 Victoria Street, #03-11, Bugis Junction Singapore 188021.


3.) TOO COOL FOR SCHOOL - PUMPKIN SLEEPING PACK


Another face mask, however this Pumpkin Sleeping Pack looks anything but spooky. But with pumpkin as ingredient this adorable product cannot be missing from this list. The texture of the mask is somewhat between a gel and a cream and spreads easily over the face. Apply before you go to bed, and while asleep the formula will smooth, nourish and moisturize the skin. Wash off in the morning. Especially suitable when your skin needs some nourishment after the layers of heavy makeup you’ve been wearing that part of your Zombie Nurse / The Joker / Corpse Bride outfit during Halloween.

Pumpkin Sleeping Pack, 100ml
Price: 17 SGD
Available online at Althea Beauty webshop (ships to Singapore).


4.) HOLIKA HOLIKA – PRO:BEAUTY BLOODY OIL LIP TINT

The perfect product to get deep red, bloody lips like a vampire. The Bloody Oil Tints are highly pigmented oils that give your lips strong colouring. The moisturizing formula supplies moist to your lips and forms an oil coating layer, making the colour very long-lasting. Perfect for vampires that have a long nocturnal shift ahead of them…

PRO:BEAUTY Bloody Oil Lip Tint, 4ml (available in 5 colours).
Price: 15 SGD
Available online at Althea Beauty webshop (ships to Singapore).

Sunday, October 27, 2019

How to smudge-proof your mascara in the humid tropics

Being blessed with a set of long lashes, my mascara tends to smudge on the skin below and above my eyes somewhat, no matter what climate I find myself in. Heat and humidity unfortunately do make matters worse for me – and many others with me.

Most important thing to realize is that smudging of mascara on your skin isn’t only caused by the mascara you are wearing; it’s actually an interplay between the mascara on your lashes and the condition of the skin around your eyes. In a hot and humid environment, your skin tends to be more oily and/or sweaty, which, when in contact with your mascara, is the perfect recipe for stains. The solution is therefore mostly twofold: besides finding a mascara that works well for you, make sure to take appropriate measures to avoid the skin around your eyes from inviting your mascara to smudge.

In finding a mascara that works well for your lashes and doesn’t smudge so much, many women resort to waterproof mascara’s. Keep in mind however that waterproof doesn’t necessarily mean smudge proof. There’s quite some waterproof mascara’s that still smudge, because it’s the oil in your skin or makeup and not water that comes into contact with the mascara on your lashes.

To keep the oil in your skin from transferring your mascara onto your skin, use a (loose)face  powder on the skin below and above your eyes. Just dap the powder (use a little makeup brush or pad) on the skin and apply where your lashes are most likely to touch your skin. Do this for both bare skin and makeup’ed skin, like when using a highlighter or concealer under your eyes (especially then!). If you use a translucent powder you cannot quickly go wrong with the colour, but when you use a loose or compact powder that has more coverage, always use one tone lighter than your face. This will ‘open’ your look; makeup under the eyes that is too dark will make you look older, less fresh and more tired.

Loose powders that significantly reduce the amount of mascara smudging for me are the following:



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  • Chanel - Poudre Universelle Compacte (more translucent than the above)
  • MAC – Blot Powder (in particular to control oil!)
  • Bobbi Brown – Sheer Finish Loose Powder

When you need a little touch up during the day, a compact powder like Chanel’s Poudre Universelle Compacte or MAC's pressed powder is very convenient to carry with you in your handbag.

Mascara’s that work well for me personally are the following:

  • Lancome - Hypnose Drama + Lancome Hypnose Waterproof
I first apply a layer of the normal Hypnose Drama, followed by a second layer of the Hypnose Waterproof mascara – this makes it easier to remove the waterproof mascara and gives the voluminous effect that many WP mascara’s lack…

  • Clinique High Impact Curling Mascara
I like the arched wand that scoops and lifts up every last lash. This mascara promises to be "smudge, flake and smear-resistant for up to 24 eye-opening hours" and works pretty well (just minor touch ups needed to fight the smudge). Can be easily removed with warm water. 

  • Majolica Majorca – Lash King Film
This has been my ultimate Singapore find so far: Shiseido-owned brand with amazing value for money and amazing mascara’s. Prices around 20 SGD and available at a.o. Watsons

If you’re comfortable using makeup and tend to wear more than just the ‘natural’ basics like a mere hint of mascara and some gloss on the lips, you could try a Makeup Setting Spray as well to ‘set’ your mascara and any other makeup from smudging, transferring and melting. A post on how to use such a product will follow soon, so stay tuned…!

Palm Oil & Haze: How to Choose Your Cosmetics Well-informed


Haze or not, I'm a firm believer of being conscious about the choices we make as consumers. For example, my preference goes out to beauty products that are not tested on animals and whenever possible I pick these product over others. With the ongoing haze I notice people around me getting more conscious about the relationship between our palm oil consumption and the heavily polluted air we are now suffering from in South East Asia.

I will not go into details on haze and the how's and why's around palm oil production; just wanted to share with you this list that might come in handy in case you do want to be more involved in the world around us...


If you like to learn more, check out the Palm Oil Guide "How your daily routine can help the rainforest" here.

Tropically Sun-kissed or Born Bronzed: Where to find the right shade of foundation


Many of our favourite Western makeup brands (a.o. Chanel, Dior, Estée Lauder, Guerlain, YSL, Clinique and Lancôme) don’t carry the same foundation shades in Asia as they do in Europe or the US. Given the multi-racial melting pot that Singapore is, this calls for brands with a wider range of shades, to cater to all of our beauty needs. From the pale-skinned Scandinavian expat with a sun-kissed shade from an afternoon at Tanjong Beach Club to the to-die-for eternally bronzed cheecks of our Brazilian neighbour; finding the right foundation shade is pivotal yet proves to be a challenge in Singapore. If, like me, you need a slightly darker shade than is commonly offered in South East Asia, make sure you check out below brands and discover my foundation beauty hack at the end of this post.


HAPPILY TROPICALLY SUN-KISSED


Having a medium fair skin and dark hair, I tan pretty easily even though I wear an SPF in my skincare on a daily basis. Settling-in upon arriving in Singapore, I went out of the house a lot to discover this exciting new city and the neighbourhood that was now our home. Although I wasn’t exposed to ridiculous amounts of sun and usually wear a moisturizer with an SPF, my skin already darkened to the same amount as a two week holiday on the beach in the South of France usually does – strong stuff, that South East Asian sun! I actually liked my tan as it made me feel like I just returned from Saint Tropez, all rested and relaxed. The foundations that I brought from back home however, now turned out to be way to pale for my tropical sun-kissed complexion. 


Over the years I’ve tried many different foundations, but pretty much stick to the following foundation principle on my makeup shelf: one light coverage foundation for daytime (favourite: Chanel  Vitalumiere Aqua) and one long-lasting medium to full coverage foundation for nights out (Favourite: Estée Lauder DoubleWear). There’s also enough days that I don’t wear any foundation, or that I just mix a bit of foundation through my face cream for a very natural bare skin effect. Long story short, I needed to hit the stores to find my favourite foundations one shade darker to match my tropical new skin tone. Back at home in Europe I would prefer to go to the standalone brand boutiques or shop-in-shop makeup counters of my favourite brands in large department stores. I love the service you get there, and the way they pack your items in the cutest branded bags (I’m very sensitive to the Dior and Chanel logo’s).

SNOW WHITE BEAUTY STANDARD


However, when I visited some department stores in downtown Singapore, it became clear to me how much of the US and European luxury cosmetic brands adhere to the Asian beauty standard of white skin. Beauty advisors at both Chanel's and Estee Lauder's own beauty boutiques (down in Ion Orchard) told me that the range of their foundation shades didn’t go further up than a moderately pale beige! Upon asking some help in finding my new shade, I was constantly advised a foundation in a paler tone than my own skin by the sales advisors. When explaining that I wanted a foundation in a shade that is similar to my own skin tone, the sales girls looked at me in sheer horror. And even worse; announced that darker shades simply aren't available in Singapore.  

Living in South East Asia, it probably won’t be new to you that there is a clear preference here for a pale, snow white skin. Just as in Western society before the 1920s, before Coco Chanel accidentally got sunburned on her holiday in the French Riviera and set a trend to be tanned, a tan in Asia is still associated with the lower classes because of harsh outdoor work and subsequent sun exposure. The lighter and brighter your skin, the higher your economic and social status, whereas in the West the opposite is true today and a radiant sun-kissed complexion reveals your health and wealth. After all, you can afford to visit destinations such as Capri, Marbella or –nowadays- Thailand and the Maldives.

THE QUEST FOR A WIDER RANGE IN SHADES


I was very happy to find some darker shades at the Chanel and Estee Lauder counters in Takashimaya in the end, however this seemed to be the exception for most brands. I haven't found darker shades of the aforementioned brands at any other brand's own beauty boutique in the malls, or at other department stores for that matter. Being medium tanned, I'm pretty save to find the shade(s) I need, but I realized that for many other women with slightly or intensely darker skin tones, it must be very difficult to find the right shade. 

Singapore is a proud multi-cultural melting pot, in which both native Singaporeans and expats contribute to the interesting mix of different cultures - and thus skin tones. It therefore struck me that in such a multi-racial society the ideals of beauty are still seem to favor fairer skin, or at least cater to the paler tones on the palette. So where can we get the largest range of foundation shades, both for occassionally sunkissed Caucasian skin as well as for the beautiful darker skin tones of our Indian, Middle Eastern, South American and African sisters?

BEAUTY ADVICE


As mentioned above, most well-known Western brands such as Chanel, Dior, Estee Lauder and YSL offer somewhat darker tones at Takashimaya than they do in other stores. However they don't go up to ebony or creamy chocolate colors.After some thorough research I did find quite some brands that offer a large range of foundation shades, including darker ones, in Singapore.

These following brands have the widest shade range, from ebony to ivory, and offer many different shades within this range as well:
  • Bobbi Brown: prices between 75-85 SGD. Find stores here.
  • Make Up Forever: prices 75 SGD. Find Stores here
  • MAC: prices between 54-62 SGD. Find Stores here
  • Sephora - own brand: prices between 29-32 SGD. Find Stores here
MAC's new Studio Waterweight SPF 30 Foundation is available in 23 shades.

The following brands have a pretty wide shade range but offer slightly less different shades within this range, at least in Singapore:
  • Marc Jacobs: prices between 75-85 SGD. 
  • Laura Mercier: prices between 75-78 SGD. 
  • Nars: prices between 72-75 SGD.  
  • Stila: prices between 53-62 SGD. 
  • Revlon: price around 30 SGD. 

These four brands can be found at Sephora, find stores here.


Marc Jacobs Foundation shades go up from light to pretty dark

BEAUTY HACK!


If you can’t find the exact right foundation shade, or if your skintone tends to vary substantially over time -which, as explained above, is the case for me- just buy two different shades of the same foundation. You can either mix two shades that are very alike for just that minor customization for your skin, or mix two shades that are very different because your skin is too; e.g. one that matches your skin when it is lightest and one that matches your skin when it is darkest so that you can create your own shade of foundation to cover the entire spectrum of tones that your skin takes on in between these extremes. This principle works great as well if you can't find a foundation with the right undertone, that is if your skin tone is somewhat in between a beige, rose or yellow undertone (some foundations are categorized into ‘warm’ and ‘cold’ tones instead). If your skin is too beige for a rosy undertone, but too rosy for a beige undertone, just take both and them mix up!


To illustrate, I use  Estée Lauder DoubleWear in shades 2W1 Dawn and 3W2 Cashew. These shades are quite far apart from eachother (yet have the same undertone; 'W' for Warm), but for me they tend to cover the entire range of shades that my skintone can take on. When I’m most pale, I use pure 2W1 Dawn. After a 3 week beach holiday, I use pure 3W2 Cashew for my bronzed complexion. After only a beach weekend away, I know ¼ X and ¾ will perfectly match my sun kissed skin tone. Works with any foundation, and you always have a foundation sur mesure!

Try it! Use your hand as a palette and put a drop of the first foundation on the back of your hand. If you need to (slightly) lighten the darkest foundation (i.e. your skin is in the dark end of your skintone spectrum), you start with this foundation; likewise, if you want to add a hint of colour to your lightest foundation, you start with this one first. This way you avoid mixing up too much product on your hand that you won’t be using, as it is easiest to gradually add some colour especially if you’re not sure about the right mixture for your tone.



Estée Lauder DoubleWear in shades 2W1 Dawn (lighter shade) and 3W2 Cashew (darker shade): with just these two shades I can cover the entire spectrum of shades that my skintone can take on throughout the seasons and sun-exposure. And yes, the difference is big!

Add the desired amount (find your perfect colour ratio by simply mixing up different amounts – do remember what ratio you used though!) of the second foundation, blend it with your index finger, middle finger or both (whatever you find convenient) and apply to the face by using your fingers, a sponge or a foundation brush as you like.

And done you are, with the best matching foundation ever – now, but also next week or month, in whatever part of your skin shade spectrum you find yourself!

No Stain no Gain: How to get a Healthy Glow on the Cheeks in the Skin-dulling Haze


Ah, the haze. No one told me about this buzz-killer before I moved to Singapore, and it’s an understatement to say that it was quite an unpleasant surprise. Learning about the hazardous effects that the haze has on our health, it is no wonder we all spend more time inside to avoid being exposed to the polluted air – fellow expat women all across South East Asia alike. The lack of fresh air and a healthy dose of vitamin D from the sun leaves me with a dull looking skin. My complexion lost its glow and is less radiant than usual, with an overall less fresh and healthy look as a result. Naturally, we will need to adjust our daily skincare routines to external factors such as air pollution – the right exfoliation, cleansing and moisturizing can do a lot. But sometimes we just need a quick fix. There is one product in particular that I find the ultimate fast and easy solution in this situation: a cheek stain.


Don’t get let the word ‘stain’ scare you off; a lip & cheek stain (mostly these products serve a dual purpose) is a liquid pigment that colours your skin, without building up much of a physical layer of product on your skin, which is more or less the case with a powder or cream blush. Instead, a cheek stain just subtly ‘stains’ the skin with a see-through rosy flush, with a very natural, dewy and healthy appearance as result. It makes you look like you went for a long walk, getting a breath of fresh air that provides you with that desired healthy glow.

So why a cheek stain and not a liquid or powder blush? In the hot and humid South East Asian weather I prefer to stay away from too much layering of makeup, as physical layers of makeup tend to melt and come off easily under the tropical heat, giving you a smudgy look. A stain is very long lasting and doesn’t wear off as easy as a powder or cream that rests on the skin in the form of a layer. Besides the worthy result of this type of product, I particularly like the fact that lip & cheek stains can be used by anyone, regardless of your skills & expertise, beauty routine or makeup preference. Stains are very easy to use, and work on both a bare naked face and a complexion covered in a hefty layer of make-up (or anything in between for that matter).

Do keep in mind though, that the more makeup you wear (foundation, powder etc.) before you apply the stain, the more colour the stain will give. And vice versa; the less makeup you wear, the more see-through and naturally dewy the effect of a cheek stain will be.  This is due to the fact that other layers of makeup on your skin will stain with colour as well, as opposed to merely staining your direct skin, when you apply the cheek stain on your bare cheeks.

“WHISTLE WHILE YOU WORK IT"


A lot of different brands offer (lip &) cheek stains, but the one I like best by far is Benefit’s “Benetint” lip & cheek stains. Benefit is a very fun brand from San Francisco that approaches makeup and beauty with a very healthy dose of humour: “Whistle while you work it” and “Fake it till you make it”. Benetint lip & cheek stain was originally developed for an exotic dancer in the 1970’s, and has soared to absolute cult status ever since.

Swatches on arm, left to right: Chachatint, Posietint, Lollitint & Benetint.


Benefit’s lip & cheek stains promise to be “the sexiest flush you can get from a bottle; the kiss-proof and smudge-proof, indelibly sheer tints give you an innocent yet provocative glow to keep everyone guessing”. And all and more is true...


PRODUCT REVIEW: BENEFIT CHACHATINT



The outright cult-colour is “Benetint”, the original rosy colour it all started with back in the seventies. This tint provides you with the most natural effect. Besides “Benetint”, three other shades are available that go by the following names: “Chachatint” (Coral/Mango colour), “Posietint” (Girly, Poppy-Pink colour)  and “Lollitint” (Candy-Orchid Lilac Pink colour). I review Chachatint here as this colour works best for my skin, but apart from the colour the product features are alike for all four of Benefit’s cheek stains.


The product comes in a small bottle the size and shape of a nail polish; when you unscrew the cap it really looks a nail polish because of the little brush applicator that you use to apply the product. Brush three dots of cheek stain on the apples of your cheeks and blend right away with your fingertip(s). Don’t let the dots set, as they will stain your skin. Usually, I put the makeup I am about to use on my face on the back of my left hand first (I’m right handed), as this provides me with an always-at-hand (literally) palette to work from, and thereby makes it easier to dose the amount of product you want to use. However do not do this with this product, as it will stain your hand when the stain stays too long on your skin without blending it! All this talking about ‘staining your skin’ has probably made you wonder if the product is easy to remove; when blended after application, any makeup remover, face cleanser or soap will get the stain off your cheeks. Just make sure you don’t leave a big drop of the stain on your skin without blending it, as this is a different story…! If you are insecure on how to apply the cheek stain, make sure to check out Benefit’s Youtube tutorial on how to apply Chachatint. 


Three dots of Chachatint give a very healthy-looking and natural glow, but if you wish a deeper “pop” of colour, just repeat and apply a bit more with the brush applicator and blend onto your skin. This works both on bare skin and on foundation/powdered skin. It’s easier to apply more after an initial round of testing what the cheek stain does for you; removing excess stain is somewhat impossible because –remember?- the colour stains your skin instead of adding a layer of coloured product to it.


The result? A sexy, natural and healthy glow that is sweat-proof and lasts all day and that I recommend to anyone who needs a quick fix during the skin-dulling haze. Benefit’s cheek stains are so versatile that the product is a must-have for women who like a natural to look as well as women who like a more dramatic look (just add more cheek stain). Moreover, the formula and way of application make the product incredibly easy to use, so the cheek stains can be used anyone – from the clumsiest makeup amateurs to the most experienced pro’s.    

 Chachatint, Benetint,  Posietint and Lollitint come in 12,5ml for 54 SGD.

Available at Sephora - find stores here.

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Must-have Beauty Products for Hot Mamas - PART 2


Part two of my absolute beauty lifesavers for moms that refuse to stop caring about how they look and feel because of momlife: "how to fake looking (and smelling) clean and well put together, as well as claiming that well-deserved me time". BAM!

From a practical point of view, I've learned that motherhood can be summarized as a sudden, paralyzing disability to just get anything properly done anymore. Except for child-related tasks and demands; the past months I became an absolute star in single-handed diaper changing, bottle feeding and assisting a screeching baby B to his pacifier, for god knows how many times. As I'm writing this with one index finger, Baby B is crying nonstop, I'm on the phone with Ministry of Manpower about an employment issue we both don't seem to understand and yelling at the Redmart delivery guy not to leave a bag of frozen goods at my sunny porch at noon. I've got some appointments with clients in CBD in the next hours, still need to figure out what to serve my husband for dinner AND want to attend a Pilates class end of the afternoon. I sure won't be arriving as flawlessly coiffed and mentally fit (last week I actually forgot my baby's name when someone asked, not lying...) at my work meetings as I used to.

Like the products I shared before, the beauty products I share below have been absolute lifesavers for me as a new mom. To fake looking (and smelling) well put together and clean, as well as a great excuse to claim some well-deserved me time.


OUAI - Dry Shampoo



Apart from being incredible practical (try washing, conditioning, blow-drying, straightening and styling your hair with a crying baby), this dry shampoo adds an instant whiff of chic to your not-so-glam life as a (new) mom.

It has an amazing and long-lasting scent, "Ouai No. 2 Fragrance", that is a refreshing and mesmerizing cocktail of Italian lemon, amber, and white musk. A very welcome change to the persistent smell of old milk, wet diapers and unwashed hair (the choice between sleep or clean hair is quickly made, eh?) that I feel has been my signature scent lately.

OUAI, Dry Shampoo 132ml
Price: 36 SGD
Available at Sephora, in stores and online


HERBIVORE - Coconut Milk Bath Soak & Detox Soaking Salts



Because sometimes mama just needs to chill. Handover your baby to your hubby, helper or babysitter and tell them not to disturb you for at least one hour. Take a book or magazine or put on some music, fill up your bathtub, add some Herbivore Botanicals Soak or Salts and just relax. 'Me Time' isn't bullsh*t once you're a mother, as many moms claim - just claim your time instead! And don't feel selfish for indulging and taking time for yourself, as in order to be a good parent, self-care is crucial. 

My regular do-not-disturb-me bathing sessions really helped me through the first chaotic weeks and I particularly liked Herbivore Botanicals' "Coconut Milk Soak" and "Detox Blue Clay + Eucalyptus Dead Sea Soaking Salts".

Herbivore Botanicals, Coconut Milk Bath Soak
Price: 28 SGD (226gr) / 50 SGD (452gr)

Herbivore Botanicals, Detox - Blue Clay + Eucalyptus Dead Sea Soaking Salts
Price: 28 SGD (226gr)

Both available at Sephora (I got mine online)


BIO OIL - Bio Oil



Serious skin maintenance shouldn't be limited to preventing the formation of stretch marks during pregnancy. Made of collagen and elastin, our skin expands when we gain weight during pregnancy. After giving birth, our belly has a hard time returning to the shape it once was, with loose skin and a saggy tummy as a result. What I found that works well is first of all to be nice to that piece of pudding on your belly and pamper it, instead of despising it. That's step 1, because it will take a while and some hard work before it's gone.

Step 2 is continuing to use body oil post-partum as well, as it leaves your skin smooth and improves elasticity. I love Bio Oil as it's light and non-greasy. I used it during my pregnancy with zero stretchmarks as a result, and feel it has been really firming my "belly pudding" over the past few weeks, using it twice daily. A nice bonus is that it helps improve the appearance of stretch marks and scars if you have any, in my case only the latter as I had a c-section.

Bio Oil, 125ml 
Price: 25,90 SGD
Available at a.o. Watsons and Guardian

Monday, October 21, 2019

A Shiny Face in The Tropics: How, Why and Goodbye


Apart from frizzy hair, one of the main beauty complaints I often hear is that tropical heat and humidity makes our faces feel oilier and appear shinier than usual. This is an unfortunate fact, but what causes the excess shine, and –more importantly- what can we do to prevent ourselves from shining from the outside instead of from within?

Let’s start with the basics: the fluids that our skin secretes on the surface are sweat and sebum (oil) – the first from sweat glands, the second from sebaceous (oil) glands. Although the one is often mistaken for the other, these are two very different substances:

Sweat is produced by sweat glands, which are small tubular structures (shape: like a semi-rolled up garden hose) of the skin. It is very fluid and contains mostly water, with traces of dissolved salts, minerals, lactic acids and urea (an organic chemical compound, essentially the waste produced by the body after metabolizing protein). The main function of sweat is to cool down the body due to evaporative cooling on the surface of the skin.

Sebum (oil) is produced by sebaceous glands, which are small, many-lobed structures (shape: like a raspberry) of the skin. It is very waxy and primarily composed of triglycerides, wax esters, squalene and free fatty acids – all very fatty organic chemical compounds. The main function of sebum is to lubricate and waterproof the skin and hair.


So which of the two is guilty?


You might wonder why this is important. I believe that understanding the mechanism that is causing a symptom that you are fighting makes it easier to effectively fight it. So, is it sweat or sebum that makes our faces sticky, oily and shiny in the tropics, especially our T-zones (forehead, nose, chin)?

The answer is both; the result of a very interesting interplay between sweat, sebum aand the humidity levels around us. 

As can be read in the Encyclopaedia Britannica, sweat glands regulate body temperature by secreting water (i.e. sweat) onto the surface of the skin, where heat is then removed by evaporation. In other words, by evaporating, each drop of sweat will take a bit of body heat away. The exact mechanism that causes heat to vanish through sweat is a bit more technical than this, but this description is will do for now.


Sounds like another smart body function, right? The problem is though, that water can only evaporate properly when there isn’t much water in the air. This means that when humidity is high, the air around us already contains a lot of water molecules and cannot hold many more, disabling sweat to evaporate and cool down our body. In that case, every drop that we sweat but that cannot evaporate to cool us off, is a wasted drop of sweat. The thing about our body is that it does not like to waste energy and valuable resources.

Therefore, when humidity is high and sweat cannot evaporate, our body prevents the sweat from falling off our skin, its hydrating and cooling benefits going to waste.  This is where sebum comes into play: the production of sebum contributes to the formation of a ‘sweat sheet’ on the skin, discouraging the loss of sweat drops from the skin. Some theories claim that heat and humidity increase our actual sebum production, whereas other theories state that the mere temperature change of sebum is enough to form a proper sweat sheet on the skin. Reasoning behind this is that in cold conditions, sebum is more solid or highly viscous, offering a coating function to shield and waterproof the skin. Above 30°C however, sebum changes in fluidity and acts as an emulsifier of sweat, a surfactant, contributing to the formation of a sheet of sweat that is not readily dropping off our face.

N.B. This is the way I understand the mechanism from different academic sources; feel free to comment below if you believe another theory applies or if you have any additional comments to make!


Goodbye Shiny Face - Oil Controlling & Absorbing Products


Because of the role that sebum (oil) seems to play, whether it be increased levels of it or simply its temperature and/or an interplay with sweat, I decided to test some oil controlling and/or absorbing products to fight the shine. To clarify, I’m not including products for oily skin but for skin that is otherwise ‘normal’ and only excessively shines in the hot and humid tropics. In addition, although oil and shine messes with your makeup, I’m not including products to prep and set your makeup to make it look neat and tidy and last longer (looking for this? See my article on setting sprays); only products that specifically promise to take the oily shine away, whether you wear tons of makeup or none.



Powders & Papers do the trick

Products to remove the shine from your face are mostly either blotting sheets or powders. Removing shine through sheets of paper has been practiced in Japan for centuries. The original Japanese facial oil blotting papers are called Aburatorigami (あぶらとり紙), meaning "oil removal paper". These papers were used by kabuki actors and geisha to help keep their thick makeup on while absorbing excess oil and sweat during their performances in non-air-conditioned theaters. Traditional aburatorigami is made from only the finest grade of Abaca leaf, rather than pulp or rice paper.

Product #1: Clean & Clear - Oil Control Film



Product Claim: “Won’t clog pores & instantly removes excess oil and removes oily shine”

These oil absorbing sheets are actually made in Japan but consist of Polypropylene (plastic) instead of Abaca leaf. They promise to instantly soak up excess oil and remove shine from your face, without smudging makeup or leaving behind powder. The sheets come across somehwat surgical to me, definitely not a glamorous product to pop out of your bag to be seen with, in my humble but self-conscious opinion. There are actually more glamorous options to be found, but as this is supposedly one of the bestsellers within its category, I decided to opt for this particular product.

I don't find the packaging very practical; I accidentily took too many sheets out and it's impossible to get them back in. What I do like about the packaging is that the flat pack fits in the tiniest purse or clutch or even in a pocket. Directions are very easy, just take a sheet (but not too many like me) out and pat your t-zone with the sheet.


The sheet visibly absorbs oil, which looks a bit gross. You can see (and feel!) the actual grease on the sheet, like fat stains on your paper napkin when you are eating a yummy but far too greasy pizza.


The result: before (left) & after (right). 
As a base, I applied Dermalogica Active Moist and I'm wearing Bobbi Brown Intensive Skin Serum Foundation SPF40, set with Chanel Poudre Universelle Libre (all applied about 6 hours prior to taking these pictures)

The result? It does the trick, but I feel the result is a bit blotchy and not evenly matte across my face (difficult to capture in a picture); some small shiny patches remain visible, places that I apparently missed - it takes a while to have covered every millimeter of my face. Overall, I don't feel or see a world shocking difference. And the slightest difference that I experienced was gone after about an hour. Like? Nah, not so much.

Clean & Clear - Oil Control Film, 60 sheets
Price: 4,80 SGD
Available at a.o. Watsons (find stores here) and Guardian (find stores here)



Product #2: Tony Moly – "Face Mix" Oil Paper Powder



Product Claim: "Sebum control powder with a soft texture. Controls sebum without dehydrating the skin."

This loose white powder promises to absorb sebum as well as sweat and supply moisture to the skin, with a clear and healthy looking and silky soft skin as result. Key ingredients are Lotus Flower extract & Ceramide, to supply hydration and soften uneven skin texture respectively.

Although the powder is white, upon application it is translucent and doesn't make your face any paler (thank you Tony Moly). The powder is lightly scented; fresh and floral. It's a pleasant scent, but you only notice it when you stick your nose in the container, not when you apply the powder to your face though.



The powder can be applied with the powder puff that is included in the round plastic container. Not as easy as the oil absorbing sheets, but the result is amazing: my entire skin looks matte and feels incredibly soft! I wasn't necessarily looking for soft skin, but it's remarkable. I want to keep touching my face. Shine-wise, any trace of oily shine is evenly gone. Like really very much gone; it almost looks unnatural in the before & after picture. In real life it doesn't look as fake matte as on the picture though. The mattifying, shine-free effect lasts for about 2-3 hours.


The result: before (left) & after (right). 
As a base, I applied Dermalogica Active Moist and I'm wearing Bobbi Brown Intensive Skin Serum Foundation SPF40, set with Chanel Poudre Universelle Libre (all applied about 6 hours prior to taking these pictures)

Great product - the only slightly less favorable part is the fact that the container will not fit every evening bag, but it's worth it to choose a larger bag just to be able to bring this product on a night out.

Tony Moly – “Face Mix” Oil Paper Powder
Price: 21,90 SGD
Available at The Tony Moly Shop in Bugis (find address here) and online through Althea.

Thursday, October 17, 2019

Juliette has a Gun "Moscow Mule" - let's get this party started!


What does a hot but sophisticated party - be it in an urban jungle night club in Singapore, a waterfront restaurant in Cannes or a sky bar in Tokyo - smell like? Like Juliette has a Gun's newest perfume "Moscow Mule". Get ready to party!

On my way to my Pilates class, a quick stop at Sephora (note to self: impossible) had me bump into the hat-wearing person behind Juliette has a Gun's fragrances. This super cool, niche-like perfume brand is a fragrance project of Romano Ricci, Nina Ricci's grandson, initiated in 2005. The big-in-Europe brand is exclusively available at Sephora in Singapore since this summer, and its most recent perfume goes by the resplendent name of "Moscow Mule".



Brain child & bottle

To me, Moscow Mule smells like:

...stumbling into Singapore's BRIX to dance on 5inch designer heels after an otherwise classy night of souper and sipping

...taking a sip of your cocktail at Shanghai's M1nt, realizing you have, pleasantly buzzed, been staring at the lobsters for at least half an hour

...a sophisticated suburban dinner on the verandah of a Bukit Timah mansion turning into a pool party out of control

...a lobster, cocktail and champagne-laden late afternoon hanging around W Seminyak's pool

In summary: sophisticated seductive, cultivated cool, jetset letting loose. 





Yours truly is known to like an international party or two

Juliette has a Gun's own description of Moscow Mule is even wilder:

Moscow Mule’s olfactory trail hypnotizes its audience, as if it were inviting everyone to share, over a glass of something, A timeless moment, where tongues are loosened and bodies scolding hot. A twist of ginger for the sexy side, a zest of lemon for the punch! A limitless pleasure to be consumed without moderation.



Top notes such as BergamotGinger and Lime make this scent exciting and refreshing, whereas heart and bottom notes such as Jasmine, Ambroxan (one of the key constituents responsible for the scent of ambergris) and Norlimbanol (a dry woody note leaning towards patchouli) give the scent a deeper and more mysterious character.

Let's get this party started...!

Juliette has a Gun, "Moscow Mule" Eau de Parfum 100ml
Price: 165 SGD
Available at Sephora


Saturday, October 12, 2019

Absolutely Hooked: 3CE Liquid Lip Color


Whereas the focus within Korean cosmetics is largely on its famous skincare, we must surely not forget about Korean makeup, in particular Korean lip products. These are equally as innovative as the beauty nation’s skincare and got me, not particularly fond of lip products in general, hooked. I picked up 3CE’s Liquid Lip Color when I was in Seoul, but fortunately the product is available throughout Asia and even in Europe and the US through 3CE’s webshop. Which is good, because I don’t think I will be ever able to live without this product again…

The product claims are actually very accurate, no hollow or vague promises, something you don't come across too often in makeup: 

CLAIM #1: Long-lasting formula for every busy woman

“The liquid to matte formula seamlessly adheres to lips and delivers long-lasting, vivid color, keeping your lips looking flawless in a single sweep without the need for reapplication.”

This is 100% true – the color lasts for several hours and survived a party I attended from 7pm till 2am. I’m not kidding. Most long-lasting lip products really dry out your lips throughout the hours, but this is not the case with this lip color.

CLAIM #2: Effortlessly Bold True Matte Color

“The super-soft, richly pigmented formula glides on smoothly like a cream and dries to a true matte finish. “


The color I got is called “Low Down”, a muted rose tint with a hint of beige. One of less bold colors (other available colors include bright pinks and corals and even a dark aubergine color), as I’m more the classic type. It’s still a cool color though, distinctive but not too much. I will definitely try more colors asap though...


The other Liquid Lip Colors



CLAIM #3: Precision-tip applicator

“The flexible cushion applicator allows anyone to create both a gradient and full coverage look like a pro makeup artist.”


True - I absolutely love the applicator, it makes it so easy to apply the product. Just squeeze the tube a bit and the soft applicator fills up with the product. The precision-tip makes it possible to draw steady lines just outside your natural lip line, so no additional lip pencil is needed. The product does dry up rather quickly and once it’s dry it is difficult to adjust a line as it is really ‘set’, so don’t work too slow. 

CLAIM #4: Matte on the outside, soft on the inside

“Plant-derived oils such as Chenopodium Quinoa Seed Extract and Argania Spinosa Kernel Oil provide intense moisture, keeping lips soft, flake-free and comfortable.”

Yes – this is what I meant above; I won’t say the product makes my lips especially soft, but for sure it doesn’t dry them out either. Very comfortable to wear.


The Result! Love it.

3CE Liquid Lip Color #LOW DOWN


Price: 17.000 KRW (around 21 SGD /18 USD)
Available at 3CE Stores in Korea (find stores here); 
Selected stores throughout Asia (find stores here - haven't seen this product in Singapore yet);
and online through 3CE/StyleNanda Webshop (find here - worldwide shipping, yay!)

Thursday, October 3, 2019

A Korean/Japanese Lip Mask not just for Lips...


This is one of the many products that I picked up during my trip to Japan and South Korea last month. It seems that in Asia, there's a mask for everything, so a mask for lips isn't that big of a shock. I did however have to look twice when the back of the product indicated this mask can also be used for body parts that rarely see the day light...

Although Pure Smile is a Japanese brand, the products are made in Korea, probably to tag along on the success of Korean (made) cosmetics; “as long as it comes from Korea, it’s good and effective” is a popular believe in Asian cosmetics.

The pack shows a pair of picture perfect full and glossy lips, consistent with the duckface obsession that –in my opinion- unfortunately still hasn’t faded away. I look absolutely ridiculous when I duckface on pictures, but for that matter, who doesn’t?! Anyway, a pair of full and glossy lips is never away, whether the purpose is another self-glorifying selfie or, well, just because.


Front and back of the Choosy Milk lip mask

The description on the pack is almost entirely in Japanese (I bought mine in Japan but have come across the product in Korea and Malaysia as well), the only words in English being “Vitamin E” (an antioxidant that protects and repairs your skin), “Collagen” (making your skin look fuller and smoother) and “Hyaluronic Acid” (helps to retain and enhance the moisturize content of your skin).

An illustration of a pretty girl wearing the lip mask says “feel fit”. Could this mean that it makes my lips feel fit after use? Or should I experience a proper fit between my lips and the mask when wearing it? Not sure. According to another illustration, you can also use the mask for your chest, that is, to moisturize your nipples in case you find that necessary. I literally stick to my lips for now.


Due to the lack of a proper English product description, I decide to google and see if I can find a description on how to use the mask. According to other bloggers, I need to wear the mask on my lips for 30 minutes. Sounds crazy long given the fact that you cannot talk, eat, cough etc. when the mask is on your lips. Who has this kind of time nowadays?! For me, it’s not a big issue because I have my office at home and can wear any funny mask while working with the curtains closed. But when you work in an office during the day and have a family that requires spoken instructions for every futile little thing when you come home (“Honey, where’s that thing I left on the thing?” (?!) or “Mom, can I have ice cream for dinner”?) I guess this mask is not your thing...


...and neither when you are working at home, it appears. The lip-shaped mask feels like a sillicone sheet infused with a serum type of product. It doesn't really wrap around well, so I think it's safe to conclude the "feel fit" on the pack doesn't refer to the feeling when wearing the mask. It keeps falling of, so you can only use it the full 30 minutes when laying down dead still.


Awww look at that happy and excited face on the right!


The Result

Visibly, my lips look shiny but that's due to the serum I presume. They do tingle a bit (this went away after 20 minutes) and actually feel a bit more plumb and full (which lasted for about 40 minutes). Looking at the before and after pictures, before the mask my lips seem to have more lines i.e. after the mask my lips do look smoother.


Before the lip mask (left) & After the lip mask (right)
Don't let the fact that I kept my mouth slightly open on the right picture fool you to believe my lips look that much fuller. They do look smoother, but just a bit.

Success? Meh. I'm definitely not displeased with the results (especially for around only 1,30 SGD), but the 30 minutes towards it were anything but convenient. So only use if you are really dedicated to your lips and/or have a lot of spare time and/or don't mind spending so much time to get a somewhat more plumb and smooth effect.

Pure Smile - Choosy Lip Mask “Milk”
Price: around 100 Japanese Yen (1,30 SGD) in Japan / 2.000 Korean Won (2 SGD) in Korea
Available at Watsons Japan, Korea & Malaysia